1.
It is not by chance, fate, fortune or misfortune that we meet the people and have the experiences that we do or don’t. ..........
If you never ask the question the answer will always be NO...........
No1 falls in love by choice, it is by chance
No1 stays in love by chance, it is by work
No on falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.............
I always wanted a happy ending ... Now I’ve learned, the hard way, that some poems
don’t rhyme, and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle and end. Life is
about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it
without knowing what’s going to happen next....................
Be who you are and say what what you feel because those who matter mind … don’t matter … and those who matter don’t mind.” Dr. Suess ..........I am:
At best an OPTIMISTIC person (I always try and find the best in any person and situation) . I am hopeful and appreciative.
INQUISITIVE (I like to learn, challenge myself to grow and become a better person every day ,some days I do better than others) Challenge my mind not my patience LOL
HEAD STRONG ( Like Popeye I am what I am LOL . I try to have an informed opinion, meaning I have to be able to argue both sides of any argument )
COMMUNICATIVE ( I failed at mind reading, so I expect that if someone is wanting me to know something that they will tell me, as I will do to them )
Likes: People with passion, heart, strength of character, sense of humor, optimism, focus, kindness. I have an attraction for fur (facial/chest) on men -though not a necessity. A great kisser and cuddler , a man who holds hands while driving and with a look from across the room you know that you,rock his world?.
Beliefs: I follow the power of positive thinking or the law of attraction. Esther and Jerry Hicks, abrahamhicks[----] are2 people that I believe embody this way of experiencing and living.
I do not follow a formal institutionalized religion but take from the world that which best helps me to move to a place of inner peace and become a better person to others.
I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it p [email] me by.
Favorite Authors: Abraham-Hicks, Robert Fulghum, Michael Losier, William Glassier, don Miguel Ruiz, and anything else that makes me smile/laugh.
TV shows: A big Star Trek the Next Generation fan, Corner Gas, Twilight Zone
Music : a fan of country and folk music mostly.
It has been an interesting journey - As I have believed - you attract into your life that which you are resonating. Nothing really ever happens by chance but more so by OPPORTUNITY to teach us that which is in our best interest to learn. I have a variety of interests; the most important being my interest in others and helping to create the conditions upon which people can be successful (I am open to increasing my interests as the opportunity presents). I believe that building a life with someone is not a 50/50 input ratio but more of a 100/100. I take care of myself both physically and emotionally as best I can, acknowledging that there is always room for continued growth and development. I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it p [email] me by. I am a man with faults (or areas for future development as I call them), but am also working to become the better man that I want to be for myself and those around me. I am a man who is fairly educated and have been told (and I believe it) quite opinionated, although I like to think of it as strong willed. I believe that it is important to be able to see both sides of any issue (or as many sides as their might be) and to be able to argue for both sides - doing such ensures a greater likelihood of being informed and opens1 up for the opportunity for greater growth and development. The motto, Seek first to understand and then to be understood, is1 I try to (not always successfully) live by.
Here is a list of some of the things that I like : holding hands with a special man (The spaces between your fingers were created so that another’s could fill them in.), holding (spooning) all night long, looking across the room and knowing that the man across the room is mine (with or with out the handcuffs - LOL - just joking), kissing with my eyes open so that I can see deep into the depth of his soul, making love with the lights on (I am not great at brail so sometimes have to see where I am going - LOL), kissing my partner in a way that I can take in his breath and share with him mine, spending the mornings in bed with my partner connecting, having date night at least once a week with my man DANCE LIKE NOBODYS WATCHING, SING LIKE NOBODY?S LISTENING, LOVE LIKE YOURE NEVER GOING TO BE HURT/LIKE ITS NEVER GOING TO HURT AND LIVE LIKE THIS IS HEAVEN ON EARTH is a statement that encapsulates what I continue to strive for - hmmm - tough I could use some practice in2-stepping, keeping on key and well having a man to love - grrrr (so am open to offers of help in any of the areas)
I think it is important to hold out for a man that not only moves your world but creates a world for; a man who can match or better1s sense of creating a life of partnership. A man who is his own person and who is educated (not necessarily from academic institutions), motivated (but heck also can be comfortable just laying around), optimistic, an equal (it is the whole walks beside me, not ahead or behind ) though at some time1 may be more of a leader or organizer), smells good when wearing nothing (though cologne can be nice - lol), who laughs well and often, who knows the pull of the moon and the power of the slightest touch, who dances to the slowest of songs really, really well . A man should stand up for what is m [email] and right, respects himself and others (always), would give up his seat on a bus to someone in need and would help those less fortunate than himself. He should be polite, say please/thank-you/excuse-me/bless-you. He is into family, friendships, high/rough surf, Christmas mornings, fireplaces, Country music, holding hands while driving, keeps his eyes open while kissing , bathtubs not quite big enough for2, laying on a blanket or in the back of a pick-up watching the stars, holding on tight in a hug - never being the first to let go, the sound of rain on a tin roof... Inside the man should exist hope, faith and courage with the ability to be honest.
A partner should not run from conflict and understands what it means to say, fvck you with love. Physical attraction is important - can’t deny chemistry, and we all have a physical type that gets us going. It is the heart of the man that is important. A man to who will not follow or lead, but1 that will walk aside - sometimes gently pulling or pushing.
RELATIONSHIPS--of all kinds--are like sand held on your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand,the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively and the relationship slips away and is lost. I’m looking for a partner who has already spent time experiencing life on his own and feel’s he has sowed his oats. And finally (probably by now you are thinking -well it’s about time!, someone who is fairly independent and can be left alone in a room without getting into trouble or feeling outnumbered.
If you have chosen to read this far I thank you. If want to know more feel free to ask - doesn’t cost you anything . If you might be looking for a great guy for a friend then stop in - you may be surprised at what you find.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Denver,
Colorado (CO)
USA
2.
My heroes have always been cowboys! :-) My life has revolved around cities for too long.... Little by little I keep moving further out, looking to the wide open spaces for energy and renewal. Someone who shares that outlook and sense of adventure would keep this horse well content.
Age: 60 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
South Central Burbs,
Denver,
Colorado (CO)
USA
3.
I am a smooth Asian guy.
Looking for all kinds of possibilities. I like many kinds person and fur is plus. non smoking please.
Age: 31 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Lawrence,
Rural Area,
Kansas (KS)
USA
4.
who doesn 't like ..More a furry otter than a cowboy but maculine and many cowboys are also.At least1s that were before brokeback mountain,lol.now everybody wants 2 be1.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Cocoa,
Melbourne,
Florida (FL)
USA
5.
I have lived in the Lansing area most of my life and even worked in a bar in Lansing now i only go to Esquire on tuesday nights for euchre and some saturday nights if MIGRA has a bar night in Lansing. Do to where i work . I am in Detroit most weekends and usualy can be found at the Hayloft Saloon or Diamond Jims Saloon .I prefur to have an idea of who i am chatting with so if you want me to respond i sujest you have a picture or dont bother cause if i cant see a pic how am i suppose to vote .
Age: 42 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Lansing,
Michigan (MI)
USA
6.
Native Californian, raised on a non-producing farm in the hills east of San Francisco Bay. Tall, bearish (bearded, furry chest), mostly top (GrA, FrA/P) seeks playmates in the Russian River area. Playmates should have facial fur and be reasonably fit. Other turn-ons (in no particular order) include cowboy drag, frisky b0tt0ms furry bvtts gen-x cubs, latinos, little guys, redheads, and other tall guys. Scott: msj at acm [----] org
Age: 56 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Monte Rio,
Sonoma County,
California (CA)
USA
7.
good guy here with a kinky side, lookin for same!
key words include, but not limited to:
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nonpaying member here - please contact me at [email]
Age: 48 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Rural Area,
South Carolina (SC)
USA
8.
I ’m 56 and do not look it, 5ft 9in 160lbs furry chest salt and pepper hair and Hiv-Neg
Seeking Cowboy,Trucker,Leather guys for buddies and good times to travel, go to rodeo ’s and other activities
Occupation ASE Cert Partsman for 36 yrs,I know my stuff about cars and trucks need yours worked on ??
I was the official DJ for Hot Springs Rodeo,Palm Springs CA. May 1-4,and will be DJ at North Star Regional Rodeo,Minneapolis Jul 4-7 for the 5th time :) Stop by and say HOWDY !!!
COWBOY UP !!
I also DJ at IGRA Rodeo ’s and Benefits ( need a DJ for your event ?? Call me !!
Age: 56 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Toledo,
Ohio (OH)
USA
9.
Ive been country all my life. All my family has been from Texas and further in the southern roots. Its just me and thats all I can be.
Age: 31 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Roseville,
Sacramento,
California (CA)
USA
10.
Once straight, now enjoying the other side of the fence a lot better. Divorced for awhile now and have a steady BF here in MI. Not really looking for a partner, but good friends always are welcome. Decent-mannered men with good values appeal the most to me. I appreciate fellow cowboys that are furry, masculine types that enjoy traveling, the outdoors, lounging or working. I’m a member of APHA and used to breed. I think I’m a pretty good judge of horseflesh and have done groundwork and greenbreaking to start colts. I’ve also whispered to some troubled horses to help them deal with people. Thinking about re-joining MIGRA and I appreciate all rodeos and especially bullriding (PBR). I’m an engineer, that’s what puts food in my belly, although I’m a cowboy at heart. Raised country, exposed to the city, can handle myself in any social situation from redneck to red wine, no matter. Life’s good.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Tawas Area,
Saginaw,
Michigan (MI)
USA
11.
I am a full flegged Texan. Having grown up in rural Texas, and live out in the surburbs of the surburbs. I am about 40 mins southwest of Houston. I work retail so my hours differ from day to day, but usually I am at work at 5 am so that means I go to bed early and get up early. I enjoy rodeos, horses, camping (I have a 1965 Airstream),home construction, cabinet building, furniture refinishing, etc.. Outdoors is where you will find me more often than not! I will get some pics on very soon!
Age: 30 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Rural Area,
Texas (TX)
USA
12.
I THINK IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING THAT GAY COWBOYS STAND FOR EVERYTHING DIGNIFIED, RIGHTEOUS AND GOOD ABOUT THIS GREAT AND STOIC LAND OF OURS THAT SO MANY OF YOU PATHETIC SNIVELING LITTLE PIECES OF TOOTIE-FRUITIE CRAP SEEM TO TAKE FOR GRANTED. GAY COWBOYS REPRESENT THE FREEDOM, COURAGE, STRENGTH AND UNBRIDLED SPIRIT OF ADVENTURE THAT DEFINE WHAT AMERICA HAS HISTORICALLY BEEN, IS NOW AND SHALL FOREVER CONTINUE TO BE. IF AMERICA WERE TO HAVE A HEART, IT WOULD EITHER BE A DESERT EAGLE OR A GAY COWBOY. IF YOU ARE ANYTHING LIKE ME, YOU NEED A BLOATED furRY-BACKED COWBOY-SAILOR WEREWOLF FULLY AROUSED AND GLISTENING IN THE DARK AT THE FOOT OF YOUR BED AT ALL TIMES OR LIFE JUST ISN’T WORTH LIVING. BELIEVE ME: I CRAVE EATING FRITOS OUT OF MORE THAN JUST THE BAG THEY CAME IN, SO GET IN TOUCH REAL SOON, PARTNER. OH YEEEEEEZ.Y’ALL COME BACK NOW,YOU HEAR
Age: 61 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
My Fucking Yard,
El Paso,
Texas (TX)
USA
13.
Enjoy the country/western life, horses, friends, rodeo, the outdoors, camping, and good living. Like the down-to-earth attitude cowboys possess. Looking to move further west (thinking Texas right now, likely Austin) in spring 2009.
Age: 40 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Poncey Highlands,
Atlanta,
Georgia (GA)
USA
14.
If Homosexuality Is a Disease, Can I Call Into Work 'Gay'?
Total Top Man Here! OK! I will however give it up for the man I LOVE! But until then................
New to Reno...........
Most Recent PICS are the1s with the Black Tank taken January 29th, 2008
Masculine 43, 5'10" 205, Beefy, Muscular, Heavily Tattooed, Rugged Blue Collar Type Guy, Nicely hvng (7 1/2 Cut THICK), Looking for Vers to Total b0tt0m Masculine Guys.......For a Little of This...and a Little of That.1 Night or1 Weekend or1 Life, Whatever Comes My Way! Facial Hair, Tats, furry Belly's A+++!!!! LOVE THAT!!
Trying to Figure Me Out?
Filipino and Scottish, Clan MacFarlane. ALL Scottsman from the Waist Down..LOL
Not really A Bear or an Ottor but more of a MuscleMutt!!
A MuscleMutt has quite a combination of gay categories in a well-balanced and lovable mix.
A MuscleMutt is: part real man, part circuit boy, part gym rat, part leather man, and has many more qualities than can be listed here. A MuscleMutt looks and acts like a man, but can laugh at his own periodic nelly spell. The typical mutt is generally furry and typically sports facial hair, and of course has an energetic frisky attitude wherever you see him - whether that be on the dance floor, at the gym, or in the back room.
A transplant from SF CA...born and raised.7 years in Upstate NY, Albany-1986-1993 then back to SF, Seattle in December 2004. Reno NV August 4th 2008...Lemmon Valley!
Single!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Open to DATING! Relationship Oriented here! Wired that way!
Super Passionate and Intense Sexually
I am POZ (1985) so really Prefer to Play with other Healthy POZ Men.
BUTT.......
Will play with Neg Men as long as fvck!ng isn't the goal. I mean there are alot of other things to do to get to the goodstuff!!! :)
Things I like:
Mutual JO
Getting Serviced
svck!ng Dick!!!!! LOVE IT!!!!!
F*cking
WS
Leather
Porn
Outdoor Sex (On very HOT day's In the Sun)
Total Makeout Sessions (Love to KISS)
Cuddling, Cuddling, Cuddling!!!!
What I love!
My BMW R1150GS Monster Bike and My best bud Joey, WOOF! WOOF! an 8 year old English Bull Terrier. My Best friend and Brother for Life Mike F. and of coarse My Buddy Todd S. On the East Coast, Love you Man! XOXO and My Dude Gregory J. (HardLuckBear)....I miss you and Magic so Much!
So don't be shy.....Say HI!
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Stuff I did,
My job history has been in non-profit in LGBTQ community from Case-Management, HIV-Prevention, and Treatment Advocacy. Last job was Arts and Media Program Coordinator and Co-Coordinator of the Young Mens Program at LYRIC in SF CA...Setting up Arts and Media Programs for at risk and homeless young people in our community to providing crisis care for homeless young men.
Rescued Pit Bull Terriers in Seattle WA. Have2 acres in Lemmon Valley so will be Rescueing animals here in Reno as soon as I'm set up. Best friend from SF is with me and he has2 horses..Plan on more...City Boys turn Rural!
That's a little bit about me....just a caring and giving guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and is always willing to lend a helping hand!!! Everything you want in a BF...Wink!
Age: 43 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Lemmon Valley,
Rural Area,
Nevada (NV)
USA
15.
Average rural Kansas rancher looking for other rural minded men for friendship and more. Varied interests including gay rodeo,2-step dancing, gardening, bear events, fairies, and livestock.
Cowboys with facial hair and fur get immediate approval, everyone else will have to say "Hello" first.
Age: 48 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Near Topeka,
Rural Area,
Kansas (KS)
USA
16.
I went to the Atlantic and Sunshine Stampedes, got hooked on rodeo, and now I'm looking to do a lot more with it! I have a good ways to go before I'm remotely passable, but I love it and can't wait to see where it all leads. I live and work in NYC so it couldn't be further from my day-to-day routine. But I'm still very much Midwestern at heart and the small town ideals I grew up with have been becoming increasingly important to me; funny that I have to live someplace where they are in short supply to realize how meaningful they really are! I have been looking for people that help make the City a little more compact and I've found them through2 stepping at the Big Apple Ranch and joining the Liberty Gay Rodeo Association in Philly. Most importantly, though, somehow I found the hottest, most caring fella through LGRA, and I'm very happy that we're together now and I can call him mine! I'm on this site to make some new friends and keep in contact with those I've met while traveling - I'm not looking for anything beyond this! So give a shout and say "hi, " especially if you're directly involved with rodeo. Again - it's all pretty new to me but I'm looking to learn as much as I can.
Age: 34 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Chelsea - Flatiron District,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
17.
I am somewhat multicultural and associate with a diverse group of people. My interests are varied and recently I have been more actively involved with the gay western & rodeo scene. I am an active member of NGRA and enjoy CW dancing as well. I find some cowboys sexy, interesting and appealing.
Looking to communicate with and possibly meet new interesting people. Originally from New York, I have lived in various cities & countries and fairly recently relocated to the Las Vegas area from Los Angeles. I would like to further explore and get to know this city better by sharing it with friends or that special someone. Open to meeting new people for fun, friendship, sharing interests, dating and possible long term relationship if the chemistry is right. I'm comfortable and can enjoy the range of hole in the wall raw good times to piss-elegant affairs. Outgoing, personable, and sincere; Also creative, romantic, sensitive, passionate and have diverse interests and depth; I'm somewhat multicultural in my background and sophisticated but not a snob. I associate with a diverse group of people and am told that I'm easy to open up to. Being an honest, open minded and caring individual is a big plus to me. See my other profile and try my customized Date Quiz on RequestADate and drop me a line or if you see me out, ask me for a dance!
Age: 46 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Henderson,
Las Vegas,
Nevada (NV)
USA
18.
as adutchman living in paris i could not be further from being a cowboy but i m very attracted to nature and men at ease in nature living an outdoors life as i do as much as i can in my place in the country
Age: 55 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
Montmartre,
Paris,
Ile De FranceFRANCE
19.
I grew up on a small ranch/farm operation. We had apoloosas, race horses, a variety of riding horses, black angus cattle. Riding has always been a passion of mine;1 that I am not able to enjoy these days, due to a lack of a horse. I have been drawn back to the cowboy way of life seeking a partner who has or would want to have a horse or2 for riding. I also like to be1 with nature as much as possible, outdoor nudity is great, camping out in a10t. Too many pesty bugs in ND to sleep under the stars. I seek a cowboy lover who is can and will be both strong and gentle without to much hassle. I enjoy family and friends, these are important components in my life and will remain so. I am willing and ablt to relocate. I have a 4 yr degree in education; may seek further education in a year or2. I just really want to live a simple life, gardening, working with horses,and having a wonderful cowboy by my side to hold tight.
Age: 49 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
North,
Rural Area,
North Dakota (ND)
USA
20.
furry masculine country boy here, into everyday normal cowboy types for discreet fun.
Age: 34 |
seeks gay cowboy dating in
South Austin,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
