brutus101

April 23, 2010 - 01:51 am
It’s kinda easy to tell if a man has gay10dencies. Is he homophobic? Did you catch him checking another guy out? Best way to find out is to get to know the guy(s) whether he is married, have children, strict religious beliefs, and last but not least - does he wear better clothing than you?
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arazona

January 25, 2010 - 01:25 am
This would hafta qualify as1 a my ’come to jesus moments’..A few years ago,I had the very same kinda experience! The2 guys at work & I went out after work for ’afew’ beers,and I listened intently tho appearin’ to pay no mind to em as they talked,vividly I recall how my boot kept beat with bruce springsteen on the jukebox,I dun kno how dern many beers I had,but I do DO remember wakin’up next to1 on each side in a king size bed at the local motel!! That ole motel owner sure gived me a disapprovin’ look I can tell you when I walked out to my ole chevy p/up,I still dun know to this day exactly how it happend! But it sure settled THAT question awright!
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mrmint

December 04, 2009 - 06:01 am
It’s a difficult1 bud, but try this... it worked for me. Get to know them a bit better and find out what there life involves, where they go and how they pass the time when they are not at work. Then after a while arrange to go out with them for a few beers and get a bit touchy/feely, not too much, but be affectionate and if you get something in return, then you should know whether there is any possibility of something. Try it, you’ll never know unless you do!
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brutus101

July 20, 2009 - 01:46 pm
If you’re really curious about them, then simply ask them out for some drinks. Get them to open up to you and you will discover their deep, dark secrets --- sometimes it could be their fantasies. Just don’t get yourself in trouble.
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nachol

April 27, 2009 - 03:32 am
Well.. to me, you are not really interested in them. You just want to satisfy your curiousity. What’s the point of finding out if someone’s gay or not if you don’t want anything to do with them? They might just as well be into S/M, but since you are not interested, it’s not important.
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bostonboots69

August 14, 2008 - 09:47 pm
Wow, how hands on are your interactions with the co-worker, Mike? :-) I like your idea; let us know how it goes!
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mikeinbji

August 09, 2008 - 09:35 pm
I seem to be having the same kind of thing going on with a co-worker. he is a bit more hands on with me but still can't be too sure. but yes the radar does go off quite a bit of the time. i have been thinking of ideas to get some interaction with him outside of work and i think i have come up with a plan. i have a nice dog (see picture of bait in profile) that loves to be taken too the lake (mn, land of 10,000 lakes). so many places to go. pick somewhere a bit secluded so few distractions. (have a spot in mind allready) then try to get him to open up. don't drink too much at all myself but can't see anything wrong with a couple of beers either. guess trying to say i think you might have more luck in a little bit more of a1 on1 situation. no or few extra ears in the vicinity. who knows you might even work up a hug or 2. good luck
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bostonboots69

August 06, 2008 - 11:25 pm
I agree with reiner; ask them out for a friendly beer1 night after work, ask how their weekends were, just get to know them better socially. Sooner or later you should have a better idea (esp. if they talk about girlfriends). If they're not gay you can (hopefully) have some straight allies. Reading your profile, rexamillion, you sound like an extraordinary guy so I hope it works out for you!
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prosilk

June 04, 2008 - 02:00 pm
Go get drunk with them and see what happens. When ya'll start drinking....you'll know real fast.
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decaturcowboy

March 28, 2008 - 06:17 pm
there is another possibility. maybe they are both gay but don't suspect that he is?
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reiner

January 12, 2008 - 07:52 pm
rexamillion2003, your a great looking guy, I assume your not out at work, so my guess would be if they are gay... maybe your not their type as they havent made any overture toward you, or they just dont play at work? Guess your gonna have to hang out with them outside of work and see. Ask them to go for a drink after work or hangout at work and chat. Just a thought. Been there, worse luck to be attracted to damn nice straight guys... which I10d to do.
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rexamillion2003

January 10, 2008 - 10:38 pm
How do you know they are gay?
There are2 different guys at my work that seem to attract me. If I met them on here I'd certainly talk to them. But at work, there is no way to know if they are for sure gay or not. My gaydar goes off, they are my age, not married and the potential is really there. But, I don't have for sure evidence that they are gay. Since it is work the risk of just asking is too high. How do you know their stance when they are not obviously about whether they are gay or not?
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