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How do you know they are gay?
There are2 different guys at my work that seem to attract me. If I met them on here I'd certainly talk to them. But at work, there is no way to know if they are for sure gay or not. My gaydar goes off, they are my age, not married and the potential is really there. But, I don't have for sure evidence that they are gay. Since it is work the risk of just asking is too high. How do you know their stance when they are not obviously about whether they are gay or not? |
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How do you know they are gay?
rexamillion2003, your a great looking guy, I assume your not out at work, so my guess would be if they are gay... maybe your not their type as they havent made any overture toward you, or they just dont play at work? Guess your gonna have to hang out with them outside of work and see. Ask them to go for a drink after work or hangout at work and chat. Just a thought. Been there, worse luck to be attracted to damn nice straight guys... which I10d to do. |
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How do you know they are gay?
there is another possibility. maybe they are both gay but don't suspect that he is? |
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How do you know they are gay?
Go get drunk with them and see what happens. When ya'll start drinking....you'll know real fast. |
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How do you know they are gay?
I agree with reiner; ask them out for a friendly beer1 night after work, ask how their weekends were, just get to know them better socially. Sooner or later you should have a better idea (esp. if they talk about girlfriends). If they're not gay you can (hopefully) have some straight allies. Reading your profile, rexamillion, you sound like an extraordinary guy so I hope it works out for you! |
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How do you know they are gay?
I seem to be having the same kind of thing going on with a co-worker. he is a bit more hands on with me but still can't be too sure. but yes the radar does go off quite a bit of the time. i have been thinking of ideas to get some interaction with him outside of work and i think i have come up with a plan. i have a nice dog (see picture of bait in profile) that loves to be taken too the lake (mn, land of 10,000 lakes). so many places to go. pick somewhere a bit secluded so few distractions. (have a spot in mind allready) then try to get him to open up. don't drink too much at all myself but can't see anything wrong with a couple of beers either. guess trying to say i think you might have more luck in a little bit more of a1 on1 situation. no or few extra ears in the vicinity. who knows you might even work up a hug or 2. good luck |
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How do you know they are gay?
Wow, how hands on are your interactions with the co-worker, Mike? :-) I like your idea; let us know how it goes! |
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How do you know they are gay?
Well.. to me, you are not really interested in them. You just want to satisfy your curiousity. What’s the point of finding out if someone’s gay or not if you don’t want anything to do with them? They might just as well be into S/M, but since you are not interested, it’s not important. |
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