tallmn

I'm Staying away from a Farmer
message #1 posted 2009-02-19 at 14:22:33

Well what a Broken Heart here ! Met this Wonderful Man last Year, and we Dated for 4 months and then he kicked me to the curb , for I had done nothing .. He comment was that its easier beening Single , things were progressing to the deeper level in the relationship , so He ran , then after about 3 months he started to call me again , things picked up , I worked my Butt off with him at the farm , We enjoyed dinners together , just doing stuff together in general . He was very good to me ,and I was to him too , but we were't having sex . He knew that I loved him very Much . But he dismissed my love for what ever reason . I know he enjoyed me early on in the bed room scene . Then just a Month ago he met another guy at the Country western dance . Guess what .. He want even talk to me any more , I thought he had better charater than that . I did Not deserve this kind of treament , I feel that I was the Feel in Guy until something better came along . Never the less , I staying away from the Counrty western Circle here in Minneapolis , He has lost a Great Friend , and a Great Love . I would have done anything for that Man . I Loved him with my Heart , Body and Soul . Best wishes to Highway 55 !
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horseman2004

I'm Staying away from a Farmer
message #2 posted 2009-03-11 at 11:56:48

i agree with you man you didnt deserve that kinda treatment. sounds as tho you might be better off knowing how he is now rather waiting till you got to involved with him . further down the road he would have hurt you alot more. he dont know what he had and later hell figure it out.
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gudwon2no

I'm Staying away from a Farmer
message #3 posted 2009-03-20 at 01:21:44

He's an ass. And don't blame yourself because sometimes we can't see these things. Just sock it away for your life education. Let me tell you a quick story. My cousin got married to a beautiful, intelligent, good-hearted woman3 years ago.2 years ago, they adopted a baby and the spouse had custody. A year ago, it got rocky and my cousin was flirting with a woman at work through e-mails, no sex or physical contact involved. The spouse found out and ended the flirting. The spouse has a type-A personality, very controlling. Cousin was forced to take a new job within the same organization but not at all what she was trained to do. First of January, cousin moved into her own apartment at the wishes of the spouse. Cousin still sends money back home, and lives1 mile away.1 month ago, spouse decided out of nowhere that my cousin would no longer see the baby. My cousin has been devastated by this but has no legal rights to the child. I'm proud of her because she is being so strong through it all, but last week, she learned the baby was deathly sick and needed a blood transfusion at the local children's hospital. Cousin learned about it by bumping into the spouse's former co-worker at the store. The spouse was FURIOUS and has forbade her family, friends and co-workers from communicating with my cousin, but some have bucked it and told her to mind her own business. The spouse is definitely not the woman I knew, and my cousin and I are certain she has completely lost her mind through anger and extreme hostility over something in her past. Be careful of these types of angry, hostile, controlling people. They are not healthy for the rest of us.
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brutus101

I’m Staying away from a Farmer
message #4 posted 2009-07-23 at 23:30:51

He’s a piece of shit. Get someone who deserves your love.
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texjer09

I’m Staying away from a Farmer
message #5 posted 2009-11-19 at 23:01:06

My complaint with the guy is he didn’t have the balls to tell you he didn’t love you the way you loved him. Sorry, but you can’t put into someone’s heart what isn’t there and apparently he didn’t feel the way about you the way you felt about him. Shame on him for not being up front with you.
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reiner

I’m Staying away from a Farmer
message #6 posted 2009-11-29 at 14:48:45

Some times your just on different pages. I have had guys like you that I dated, they were all into wanting to commit and settle down with me... I felt way too much pressure from them.... and the pressure didnt feel like I was being given any time or space to get to know them and or to decide what I wanted. It made me pull back. Even thou they were offering me what I was looking for, it was toooooo much tooooo soon . Sometimes guys come off as needy and wanting a relationship to complete them. If your not complete alone your not ready for a relationship. Needing a relationship to make you whole is putting way too much pressure on the relationship. A guy should add to your life, or enhance it but not complete it. And some guys are jerks and will live to regret their choices... I guess if it was easy we wouldnt need sites like this to find someone. Good luck.
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tallmn

I’m Staying away from a Farmer
message #7 posted 2010-01-23 at 15:47:53

Happy Man here Update I’ll never date a farmer
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arazona

I’m Staying away from a Farmer
message #8 posted 2010-01-25 at 00:43:31

Sorry to hear yur story up there bud! But,hey! Face the dang possible fact its hard gettin free labor on farms these days! Yur better off w/out em! And no cex? Duh!! Wats THAT all about? Did he tell ya he was just plum too exhausted a worryin’ bout the price he’s gonna get on his corn or soybeans this fall to worry bout trivial things like pleasin, his bud? Awwww! Good riddance,I say!! Geez!
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