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ftwcowboy

so why am i still single?
message #1 posted 2008-07-09 at 18:43:30

i got out of a 7 year relationship 5 years ago, not the best first relationship, but really havent dated since the split. in not in to the gay scene & dont goto gay bars. i like men that arnt afraid to get dirty,hard working,monogamus,but can get cleaned up and go out on the town...i have a profile on here and a few other sites and ih no luck. not into the drama and BS. just looking for a good looking cowboy.. is that too much to ask?...lol
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cwbycntrydawg

so why am i still single?
message #2 posted 2008-07-10 at 00:19:08

Well for me going to The clubs is boring. Bars10d to be either full of guys standing and posing or groups of friends out on the town. For me that is not the place to find the love of your life. You can try groups like your local rodeo, you can meet like minded gay friends and maybe1 of them is mister right or they might have a friend they think might hit it off with you. I am not sure if they have it down there but up here in the twin cities they have gay singles groups that have different events for its members. Card nights, Wine Tasting, hiking and so on. Sites like this are great tools in the hunt for mister right, but don't let it be your only tool, check out non internet groups in your area.Look online for your local gay magazine most major city has at least1, they normally have lists of local groups and organizations. Just don't give up, try something that maybe you have not thought of.
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iceboy08

so why am i still single?
message #3 posted 2008-07-18 at 13:55:48

I honestly dont know why im still single, im a good guy very nice and well mannoed, i cook and claen and love to go out and paly in the dirt and get dirty. i like bring a man and im not all about looks and images. but yet nobody i have a few profiles on here and other sites and i get nothing. why cant i just have my man and a horse and a ranch like i want lol
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wilderfox

so why am i still single?
message #4 posted 2008-08-14 at 15:17:01

If you live in a rural area, like I do, it is practically impossible to meet any1 close enough to date. I have had1 relationship with a guy in Shreveport. It lasted about2 months. That was5 years ago and I have not had a relationship since. And1 night stands are way behind me. If you live in an urban area, good luck, because living out in the sticks sucks.
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freddybkual

so why am i still single?
message #5 posted 2008-08-21 at 15:04:41

ditto wilderfox, I too agree that living in the sticks (small town areas) sucks! I love the country/farm life here and wouldn't trade it 4 love nor $$ but finding a guy for a ltr's hard as hell in a rural area... & yeah,1 night stands (fuck buddies) are easy to find in town here... ick! but for guys that want a real man's man for a ltr - holy hell, they're to no avail!!!
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courtlandtx

so why am i still single?
message #6 posted 2008-12-21 at 12:21:19

I feel for you fellas, although, we in the city feel the same frustrations. It is hard to find a good man.1 who is honest and willing to be faithful to1 man. Trust some of us that grewup in the country, often would give our eye teeth to be back where yuo are. Mabe if you look in the city for that1 special fella, who is wanting the same thing yo are... Well you just never know who will be shacked up with in a matter of time...Happy hunting...from San Antonio, Tx
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rickluv

so why am i still single?
message #7 posted 2009-01-01 at 02:36:30

yeah...where are all the good men gone?.they're not in the country or the city...maybe we're looking for the whales.
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seattlegearstud

so why am i still single?
message #8 posted 2009-03-05 at 08:46:10

relationships are drama, accept that part. life is always giving you twists and turns. sometimes it is just drama you can live with......
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cowboybann

so why am i still single?
message #9 posted 2009-05-16 at 07:24:02

See there is that statement again. A goodlookin cowboy why does it have to be superficial. Some of us are an excellant catch without that status. I m sill single but i m lookin for mr right from the inside out.
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jstephens9

so why am i still single?
message #10 posted 2009-05-24 at 22:23:48

All I can say is that I’m glad I’m not the only1 who has this problem. I was in a long relationship too, but have been single now for awhile. I really don’t know how to meet the type of guys I like. I am really not into the gay scene at all and the people who are just don’t do anything for me. I have tried other online sites to meet people, but I don’t seem to get too much attention. I don’t think I’m that ugly or at least I have never had a problem with that. Oh well. I just want a normal, regular, down to earth guy. Is that too much to ask for?
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