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walper2
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November 25, 2011 - 11:16 am
I hear you guys have alot of the same problems i have I just came about this site yesterday and man I thought I was alone reading
some of your messages gives me some relief to know I’m not I was in the construct when it went down hill so I took up a new trade to keep thing going at home (the bills)
I went into driving a truck.. during school the old guy that teached me to drive told me son never go home without calling first and this bothered me alot so1 night I went home and found
best friend (st8) and my lover for 22 yrs togather in bed so I went off the deep end and he asked me to get out and I did.. then 6 week later he ask me to come back now remember I have been with
him for 22 yrs so I moved back big mistake I know now but I went thought this BS for another 2 and half yrs before I finally left for good ....may the 15th made us 25 yrs and june the 4th I left
now what do I do I start looking for some1 new I was with him sence high school I have never had to date or have I ever been alone so this is all new to me.. the bar sence LOL no good men
there tryed that not for me so like the rest of you I get on sites thinking this will and still no luck and you know I have thought about going back to him because I dont want to deal with the BS
of trying to fined someone new .. so how long do you look ?? I know I ’v been told stop looking but I’m tired of being alone I am a good person that cares for people I was raised on a big farm
so I care alot for animals and I live in the sticks so change of finding someone here ... If you would like to chat sometime look me up I get around the country being a new truck driver maybe
we could meet up and have lunch or something not looking for sexual favors thanks
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montanamikemt
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November 21, 2010 - 03:33 pm
Probably distance from any major population areas. It’s the sacrifice for living out here. But it a matter of choice. I suppose I could move to New York and find someone faster. But I would also be broke unless they were wealthy. But that’s a joke. I’m not looking for a sugar daddy and I’m too old anyway!
So yeah...back to reality and...still single.
Maybe the cyber fills the gap at least partially. But it doesn’t satisfy like a real relationship.
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brutus101
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April 23, 2010 - 02:40 am
I have to agree with the lack of social skills that most online folks have. Not to mention that most of the guys here want a guy that they cannot have. I get more social interaction with guys in the local gym’s steam room than online. Beware of guys with old pictures (he is 200 lbs heavier).
Sonoma County Middle of the vineyard - naked CA USA
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arazona
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February 13, 2010 - 11:16 pm
...Oh! I shoulda also added I live in1 of the most remote areas of Arizona,over 90 miles to the nearest town in any direction! I’ve met guys,but there only on the dl or extremely effeminate. Either way,its not workable
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arazona
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February 13, 2010 - 10:58 pm
No bud! It shouldn’t be,but the truth is the internet is loaded with people with very few social skills,easy to print out a profile,harder when faced with the reality of an actual possible date. Might be people are fearful they’ll disappoint ya? Dang I hate the internet,much prefer a 1:1! Shoot I’d go out with ya in a heartbeat if we liv ed closer guy! Honest!
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txcowboycj
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August 01, 2009 - 06:27 pm
How many times have I been asked that question?? There’s a million answers, are any of them right, and does it really matter. I think the bottom line is 90% of men are pigs and can’t commit to1 man. I’m no angel, but I sure do respect a guy when I’m with him. I also live rural and have limited option. Glad this site is here though so we can find guys with similar attitudes and lifestyles. :-)
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brutus101
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July 20, 2009 - 12:32 am
There aren’t too many options where I live. I’m too picky. I have a few close friends but they are married and I don’t want to be a home wrecker. Especially this1 guy that I hang out with frequently. We love each other but we cannot go further. It’s almost like Broke Back Mountain--- ohh dude! The drama!
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jstephens9
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May 24, 2009 - 10:23 pm
All I can say is that I’m glad I’m not the only1 who has this problem. I was in a long relationship too, but have been single now for awhile. I really don’t know how to meet the type of guys I like. I am really not into the gay scene at all and the people who are just don’t do anything for me. I have tried other online sites to meet people, but I don’t seem to get too much attention. I don’t think I’m that ugly or at least I have never had a problem with that. Oh well. I just want a normal, regular, down to earth guy. Is that too much to ask for?
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cowboybann
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May 16, 2009 - 07:24 am
See there is that statement again. A goodlookin cowboy why does it have to be superficial. Some of us are an excellant catch without that status. I m sill single but i m lookin for mr right from the inside out.
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seattlegearstud
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March 05, 2009 - 08:46 am
relationships are drama, accept that part. life is always giving you twists and turns. sometimes it is just drama you can live with......
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rickluv
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January 01, 2009 - 02:36 am
yeah...where are all the good men gone?.they're not in the country or the city...maybe we're looking for the whales.
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courtlandtx
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December 21, 2008 - 12:21 pm
I feel for you fellas, although, we in the city feel the same frustrations. It is hard to find a good man.1 who is honest and willing to be faithful to1 man. Trust some of us that grewup in the country, often would give our eye teeth to be back where yuo are. Mabe if you look in the city for that1 special fella, who is wanting the same thing yo are... Well you just never know who will be shacked up with in a matter of time...Happy hunting...from San Antonio, Tx
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freddybkual
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August 21, 2008 - 03:04 pm
ditto wilderfox, I too agree that living in the sticks (small town areas) sucks! I love the country/farm life here and wouldn't trade it 4 love nor $$ but finding a guy for a ltr's hard as hell in a rural area... & yeah,1 night stands (fuck buddies) are easy to find in town here... ick! but for guys that want a real man's man for a ltr - holy hell, they're to no avail!!!
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wilderfox
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August 14, 2008 - 03:17 pm
If you live in a rural area, like I do, it is practically impossible to meet any1 close enough to date. I have had1 relationship with a guy in Shreveport. It lasted about2 months. That was5 years ago and I have not had a relationship since. And1 night stands are way behind me. If you live in an urban area, good luck, because living out in the sticks sucks.
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iceboy08
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July 18, 2008 - 01:55 pm
I honestly dont know why im still single, im a good guy very nice and well mannoed, i cook and claen and love to go out and paly in the dirt and get dirty. i like bring a man and im not all about looks and images. but yet nobody i have a few profiles on here and other sites and i get nothing. why cant i just have my man and a horse and a ranch like i want lol
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cwbycntrydawg
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July 10, 2008 - 12:19 am
Well for me going to The clubs is boring. Bars10d to be either full of guys standing and posing or groups of friends out on the town. For me that is not the place to find the love of your life. You can try groups like your local rodeo, you can meet like minded gay friends and maybe1 of them is mister right or they might have a friend they think might hit it off with you. I am not sure if they have it down there but up here in the twin cities they have gay singles groups that have different events for its members. Card nights, Wine Tasting, hiking and so on. Sites like this are great tools in the hunt for mister right, but don't let it be your only tool, check out non internet groups in your area.Look online for your local gay magazine most major city has at least1, they normally have lists of local groups and organizations. Just don't give up, try something that maybe you have not thought of.
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ftwcowboy
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July 09, 2008 - 06:43 pm
so why am i still single?
i got out of a 7 year relationship 5 years ago, not the best first relationship, but really havent dated since the split. in not in to the gay scene & dont goto gay bars. i like men that arnt afraid to get dirty,hard working,monogamus,but can get cleaned up and go out on the town...i have a profile on here and a few other sites and ih no luck. not into the drama and BS. just looking for a good looking cowboy.. is that too much to ask?...lol
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