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templecowboy

starting over
Message #1 Posted 2007-09-19 at 08:55:20

I been coupled for 10 years, having to start over after being dumped and cheated on.Any Texas cowboys interested, email me at [email]
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vatovakero

starting over
Message #2 Posted 2008-01-22 at 15:54:49

Why do you think that all relationships are equal? Why not worth trying again? Gay relationships are difficult, but it depends on us how easy or how DIFFICULT want it to be. In my 34 years old I had only 3 coupples, all I have misled, but i follow to believe there is love between 2 men. The points that I care in a relationship are: - COMMUNICATION, TRUST, RESPECT, LOVE AND SEX In that vein, when 3 of the above points are broken, it is not worth continuing with a relationship, and I can say that my relationships have made me happy. It depends on how you want to be happy. Try again, it is not bad ... Alone than with the same person.
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cntryboyintx06

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Message #3 Posted 2008-01-22 at 21:31:46

Yes in all relationships there is sex, but i dont think that a relationship is all about sex. It is if you love that person, you trust that person and yall respect each other. Yeah sex is great but its not everything. Relationships is when you help each other through the hard times, you stand beside each other during tough situations, and you look forward to coming home in the eveining to him, you arent afraid to tell people that you love him. You have to be loyal to in a relationship. I think that if everyone gets to know the other person first, trust them, respects them, then the love is going to fall right on in there with out either of you having to fight for it. You both have to feel right about the situation first.
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woogiebrubaker

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Message #4 Posted 2008-02-08 at 08:10:13

howdy, I to have been cheated on.. my partner invited some1 into our home and cheated.. he is still here but i have no love for him.. was my first relationship.. kinda spoiled my trust for men.. Bruce
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saddleupguy

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Message #5 Posted 2008-02-19 at 18:48:09

Dear Woogie: Because of your partner's disrespect for you, I hope you left him. There are plenty of men out there who will love and respect you and your feelings and never cheat. Don't lose your trust in men, just know the person you call your partner. You deserve better.
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reiner

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Message #6 Posted 2008-02-21 at 19:34:58

Woogie... been there, know exactly how your feeling. Takes time to sort through all the emotions and come to the1s that really count the most. Sure hard to not take it personally but it is a reflection on him and where he is at in his life, not you. You could be accused maybe of poor judgment or of too much trust, but he has to live with what he does. We all come with so much baggage and it is so damn easy to screw up. I think the toughest thing is to find a guy at the same place in his life as you are in your life. Over the years I learned I want my guy to compliment me not complete me, there is a huge difference. All the best.
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wilderfox

starting over
Message #7 Posted 2008-03-27 at 20:19:12

I feel for ya man, I wish I could just get started. Just don't seem to be any good men in Arkansas. Hang in there, things will get better
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