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Not into posers and no-shows
I have met more people off Instagram than from this website leading me to think ya'll are a bunch of posers.
Retiring in a few years from the technology industry and looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store. Until then, I work 100% remote, so as long as I have StarLink, I'm good to keep earning for several years. Boots, gear is essential.
Fantasy: Find a cowboy as nasty as me; I can easily shift roles for the right man/men. I can be a younger man's cowboy daddy or a can be a top cowboy's sling bitch. With the right top man we can both go cruising for boys (1 or 2) and share him/them between us.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA 
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Looking to meet cowboys.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
3.
Looking for connection here. I am looking for a man who open to dating and see where it goes. Prefer
40+ and emotionally available. But hey, if you’re 30 and like older men I’m open.
If you’ve lived enough life you got some scars. Let’s see ‘em. I like horses, gear, rodeos and being outdoors and a man who is as comfortable in his boots as he is in his skin. Is secure in any situation or any venue with confidence and kindness but doesn’t compromise his values. I don’t drink. Quit that a while back but don’t care if you do.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA 
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Art: painter and photographer and and I breed and train horses on my farm. Fit.
Muscular. Lifetime equestrian. I known for my equestrian paintings.
www.lelandneff.com
My farm on Instagram:
thelandfarm
But guys on here aren’t cowboys and really don’t know how to ride a horse. I do.
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Albany, New York, USA 
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Looking for my best friend who also loves coveralls and workwear
I've never had the friendship that I've craved. I've often been somewhat introverted, but my goal is to change that. I am looking for my best friend--the brother I never had. I am a pretty basic guy in many respects. I tend to be a homebody and a couch potato. I like reading, watching TV, listening to music, and playing games (computer and video games, but I'd love to get into boardgames). I also like music (alt-country, alternative, rock, country, folk). When I have time, my favorite activity is the road trip--I love to get in my car and drive and drive and drive. I love winter, snow, and cold. Related to this, I have a thing for insulated coveralls and workwear (hence my username). They get me going. The thing is, guys in gear rev me up, but naked guys? Not at all. So I'm looking for friends with similar interests.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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Looking for guys who like and/or are cowboy types: Masculine, rugged, and liking the gear.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA 
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Rodeo cowboy
I used to compete in rodeos a lot, and still do when the mood strikes.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
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Retired cowboss, trim (30" Wranglers), ten pounds of 'stache on a 155 lb body
retired (end 2018) working ranch foreman, wary of finding a new partner to share life with but time to buck up, come down from the corral railing and look again. Polish blue eyes, hair silver, told I look like Old West character actor central casting sent down. Bilingual Eng/Span, have worked ranches in Calif, New Mexico, Arizona, Central America, Hawai'i. Still living at hq of good-sized wildland, flood- and wheel line-irrigated ranch I'd ramrodded, way out on the desert (an ex put it, "this landscape is homicidal!") not far from Tombstone, two hours from Tucson in the Borderlands on "road" you ought to think twice about driving your town car on. Oh and your cell phone won't work here either--no towers. Remain some on call for input on ranch work like round-ups and scatterings, weaning calves, troubleshooting machinery, taking care of horses but have mostly turned over the reins of all that. Have strong connection to & interest in Sonora and ranching life on that side of The Border & at home on either side of this fiction we call "The Line".
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Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
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Straight curious, just here scoping things out. Maybe looking for a mutual jo partner
Age: 55, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Sioux City, Iowa, USA 
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Looking to hook up with other blokes for friendship and maybe more.
Genuinely looking to hook up with other blokes for friendship, pen pal and maybe more.
A good mate with benefits to hang out with and go to the gym would be great. Then again most on here live in North America, so I appreciate how that can be a trifle difficult. Although I am always open to relocate as have done before in regards to work so what better reason than love to do it again.
However, I am over the BSAs who take delight in mind games and there are plenty on this site so I have found out. Perhaps an idea to name and shame them one day. Then again, the notoriety would probably inflate their egos. So best just to ignore them, block them, forget about them and move on.
Furthermore, I AM NOT INTO CYBERSEX!
I am a 'No Bullshit' kind of bloke and would appreciate the same.
All the best Everyone!
Cheers Azza
Age: 60, male, looking for friends with a man in Melbourne, Victoria, AUSTRALIA 
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Just a regular guy. Like spending some time, out in nature, don't mind a fishing trip, BUT
(ESPECIALLY), spending quiet nights at home!
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA 
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Saw a programme called "Straight Acting" which featured some rugby/hockey players and cowboys at
various rodeos. It looked interesting and I wanted to learn more about the cowboy lifestyle. Might be a bit of a fantasy with me living in the UK but very happy to make friends with guys in the US who don't mind chatting. I'm not a cowboy nor a wanna be - couldn't disrespect your lifestyle that way. I am interested, though, and hopefully, you won't mind sharing with me even over the distance.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Bradford, West Yorkshire, UK 
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I've been out of the last relationship since 2019. Enjoying meeting new friends.
Ya know what? I really like "chatting" with people. Getting to know them. Know you. Sure seems like there's an awful lot of superficial window shopping here. What's the worst that could happen if we all just said, "Hello"?
Ready to get off the rock in the middle of the Pacific that I call home. I'm open to dating and reviewing options.
I figure all of us have some similar reasons for being here. I'm not for everyone, and not everyone is for me. So, don't be offended if I don't think we're a good match. It doesn't mean I think less of you as a person.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA 
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Gay Doc Holiday seeks gay Wyatt Earp for mad erotic fling possibly leading to lifelong love affair.
OK, let me begin by making a confession: I’m a tenderfoot. I'm an Easterner who's never met a cowboy in his life. I’m just a recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish, verging on kinky, who never got to play cowboy enough as a kid, and who’s gotten stir-crazy being cooped up indoors all day in a (admittedly very good) stereotypically gay male job. So, facing retirement and potential relocation as I am, I'm aiming to break out(doors) and make up for lost time. I don't want to be conquered by the present. I’ve wasted too much of my life among alien cultures—standard-issue gay male pop culture, current academic culture, Beltway media culture—and at this point of my life just want to settle down with a man—among men—as brave, honest, loyal, resourceful and manly as he is/they are smart, well-informed, funny and compassionate. You know, your basic cowboy, though maybe with a bit more book-learning. (I’m potentially interested in all kinds of things, a lot of which didn’t get listed here, and what I do with them depends as much with what I share with the man I’m with as anything else. That is why I listed so few hobbies and interests; I can be as erudite as anyone, but I don't let that stop me.) You just don't find men like that in the usual channels in the New York/New Jersey area where I live now. (Those of you on this website from NY/NJ are welcome to contact me and prove me wrong.) That's why I've turned to GayCowboyCentral; instead of compromising my desires, why not just go for broke?
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA 
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Cowboy into rope bondage fetish. I love to be tied up. Mainly here for friends and to chat.
If we chat and like each other, happy to meet up for a drink. I like to go slow.
Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Missouri City, Fort Bend County, Texas, USA 
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I grew up on a farm and have always been attracted to the cowboy type. Love men in cowboy boots.
Age: 44, male, looking for a man in Seattle, Washington, USA 
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Kansas rancher looking for a cowboy, or other rural minded men for friendship and more.
Average rural Eastern Kansas rancher looking for other rural minded men for friendship and more. I am looking for a LTR. Not looking for a pen pal.
Sex is low on my list. So if that is what you are looking for, move on.
In a perfect world you would move here.
Varied interests including gardening, mid-west bear events, tropical plants, naked camping, flea markets, and livestock. Have been known to circle with fairies.
Cowboys with facial hair and fur get immediate approval, everyone else will have to say Hello first.
I am a good person to have on our trivia team.
Ask me what I am watching on TV ?
Someone with a personality, beat a big dick any day.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA 
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A life more in touch with the earth and a long term relationship with substance
Looking for down to earth non-pretentious genuine masculine in the sense that he takes responsibility for his actions and accountable for everything he does. Likes long early evening walks in the woods. Can talk about a multitude of subjects even though he doesn't know much about some of them. A good conversation list will always talk about anything that way they learn something. Intelligence turns me on. A good heart and an openness to experience the enjoyment their partner takes in activities they may not be familiar with but a desire to connect on a higher level. That's what I'm looking for. That's who I'm looking for.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Jacksonville, Florida, USA 
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I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA 
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
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I cowboyed some in my younger days but bailed out for a bit because I wanted to know and experience
more. I’m well traveled and educated. I enjoy a healthy lifestyle. I’m physically active. I read. I’m a boot, wrangler guy and have been damn near all my life. I wear a hat like it’s a part of me because it is and it is firmly seated on my head. I got a hankering for cowboys, men who take care of themselves, others and who are kind to their animals. Looking for a country/cowboy man 40+ who shares a passion for all things cowboy wild to mild and who wants to explore more what this life has to offer. Social liberal fiscal conservative here. Be kind. It’s is a turn on. Live within your means because it keeps you honest. Taking care of yourself keeps you sane. Don’t drink but don’t care if you do. Dip some. HMU and see where it goes.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA 
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Looking for a Relationship , sex.
I’m very fit, farm chores, riding horses, biking daily, hiking with my Great Pyrenees dogs, swimming, and lifting weights. I’m ripped, in shape. Lift weights. Do farm chores. Have ridden horses since I was born. Internationally known equestrian artist, breeder, and trainer.
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Albany, New York, USA 
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I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA 
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together by a bonfire, that kind of thing.
Sex isn’t happening with me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Needing intimacy/sex, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and, since my last breakup in 2020, "Mountains of the Heart"
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ... "She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
"Dust on the Barbed Wire" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
"Jealous of the Moon" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
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Curious, looking for mutual jo and possiby some body worship. Ideally aiming for younger, fitter man
to worship his body and we jack each other off. I'm able to travel in Nebraska, southeast South Dakota, and northwest Iowa and can host.
Age: 55, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Sioux City, Iowa, USA 
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Middle aged short arse Aussie bloke looking for a mate. Hard to say exactly what I am looking for in
a person as each person is an individual who has needs and gifts to share as much I do. All I know that I am a 'No Bullshit' kind of bloke and would appreciate the same. I am there for my mates and they are there for me. Yet it would be great to have that one bloke who is my first 'G'Day' in the morning as I wake up and the last call for the day just to say, "I'm on my way home". Someone who is 100% there for me as I will definitely be 100% there for him.
All the best Everyone!
Cheers Azza
Age: 60, male, looking for friends with a man in Melbourne, Victoria, AUSTRALIA 
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Just a regular guy, looking for a relationship.
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA 
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Howdy, I'm a single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, love the country/western lifestyle and culture,
looking to meet the same for friendship, dates and am open to a serious ltr if the right guy comes along. I have a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. A guy who wears his spurs is definately the guy for me. Love a guy who is my height or ttaller, masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. Im allergic to smokers so prefer a non smoker! I love to travel, distance not a problem for the right guy, very mobile
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA 
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My name's Michael and over 60. Please do not ask for my email address or telephone number - you
won't get them. If you're genuine, we'll continue communicating on here until we're both comfortable with each other! I live in a small town near two big cities but would be happier in the middle of nowhere growing my own food, livestock and company. Only thing missing is someone with whom I can share it.
Looking, primarily, for friendship though not afraid of finding a long term relationship but not desperate to get one or flit from one relationship to another trying to find "the One". I'm a widower (civil partnership) and have been on my own since 2010 so am happy with my own company. It's nice to make friends and spread the joy whether that be via e-mail, skype, etc. I've piled on the pounds lately and have just started doing something about it. I suppose I could be described as a typical bear type though there's more to me that that and would rather know for me rather than "the look" as that often leads to more disappointment. Very much into arts and crafts, archery, playing music, baking and cookery. Currently a Civil Servant but nor afraid of getting my hands dirty - I worked as a teenager on a farm. For now, take good care, thanks for reading this far and all the very best for the future.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Bradford, West Yorkshire, UK 
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I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA 
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Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA 
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Cowboy into rope bondage fetish. I love to be tied up. Pretty private guy (parnered). I love a
cowboy that want to dom me. I love verbal domination. Hit me up if you want to chat. I have a crazy schedule, but if we meet up for drinks and the chemistry clicks, who knows, maybe we'll even rodeo. WOOF! *****
I do like to write cowboy stories if you are interested in getting a hard-on by reading - check it out! *****
http://cowboylust.blogspot.com/ *****
Enjoy!
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Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Missouri City, Fort Bend County, Texas, USA 
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA 
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